What

  is therapy anyways?

My goal as a psychotherapist is to create a safe space whereby building a relationship, unraveling issues, demystifying oneself, voicing hopes and dreams, and developing wisdom and insight, one can emerge from (and exist in) the forest that is life with a deeper understanding of how to navigate oneself and the world around us. 

Life is inherently difficult, and to many, therapy can be a place of comfort in times of crisis or difficult situations. However, while  much of therapy involves a place  to be heard, to those seeking self-actualization, we engage in this process with the aim of equipping you with the tools needed to endure future hardships in an imperfect world where negative experiences and events are outside of our control. We call this "psychological flexibility", and the process to attain it takes work. 

Therapy, in which we seek change, involves bypassing the thoughts, emotions, and stories that have collectively enforced our negative behaviors and consequently created a false concept of who we are. I believe the concept of "who we are" has less to do with our thoughts and history,  but rather more with who we want to be. By committing ourselves to live to our values and goals, despite how difficult they might be, we can live a life that is gratifying, authentic, rich, purposeful, and well-adapted.

Academically, scientific guidelines for success do exists for therapy - cognitive behavioral therapy, mindfulness, psychodynamic therapy, dialectical behavioral therapy, etc - all which come with an extensive list of techniques and models that can be summoned upon to work best for different symptoms and issues. However every therapist knows that at the core of psychotherapy, acting as a catalyst for change, is something that can’t be accurately measured – human empathy and unconditional support. It is through this mix of a therapeutic relationship, objective reasoning, and research-based methods, that we can embark in the journey of self-actualization together.

Some of the challenges I help treat are:

Stress, anxiety, depression, mood disorders, psychotic disorders, medication adherence, sexuality & gender, LGBTQ issues, HIV, career struggles, Men's Issues, Immigrant and cultural issues,  low self-esteem, peer relationships, racial and ethnic identity, grief, spirituality, and suicidality

Therapy Models

  • Cognitive-behavioral therapy stresses the role of thinking in how we feel and what we do. It is based on the belief that thoughts, rather than people or events, cause our negative feelings. The therapist assists the client in identifying, testing the reality of, and correcting dysfunctional beliefs underlying his or her thinking. The therapist then helps the client modify those thoughts and the behaviors that flow from them. CBT is a structured collaboration between therapist and client and often calls for homework assignments. CBT has been clinically proven to help clients in a relatively short amount of time with a wide range of disorders, including depression and anxiety.

  • Acceptance and commitment therapy (ACT) is an action-oriented approach that stems from traditional behavior therapy and cognitive behavioral therapy. Clients learn to stop avoiding, denying, and struggling with their inner emotions and, instead, accept that these deeper feelings are appropriate responses to certain situations that should not prevent them from moving forward in their lives. With this understanding, clients begin to accept their hardships and commit to making necessary changes in their behavior, regardless of what is going on in their lives and how they feel about it.

  • Psychodynamic therapy, also known as insight-oriented therapy, evolved from Freudian psychoanalysis. Like adherents of psychoanalysis, psychodynamic therapists believe that bringing the unconscious into conscious awareness promotes insight and resolves conflict. But psychodynamic therapy is briefer and less intensive than psychoanalysis and also focuses on the relationship between the therapist and the client, and the client and their past as a way to learn about how the client relates to everyone in their life.

  • Internal Family Systems (IFS) is an approach to psychotherapy that identifies and addresses multiple sub-personalities or families within each person’s mental system. These sub-personalities consist of wounded parts and painful emotions such as anger and shame, and parts that try to control and protect the person from the pain of the wounded parts. The sub-personalities are often in conflict with each other and with one’s core Self, a concept that describes the confident, compassionate, whole person that is at the core of every individual. IFS focuses on healing the wounded parts and restoring mental balance and harmony by changing the dynamics that create discord among the sub-personalities and the Self.

  • Jungian therapy, also known as Jungian analysis or analytical therapy is an in-depth, analytical form of psychodynamic talk therapy designed to bring together the conscious and unconscious parts of the mind to help a person feel balanced and whole. Jungian therapy calls for clients to look at the “real” self rather than the self they present to the outside world. It utilizes various techniques like dream analysis, archetypal psychology, personal mythologies and active imagination to facilitate this process

  • Hypnotherapy focuses on hypnosis, the Greek term for sleep. The practice uses exercises that relax people, bringing them to an altered state of consciousness. This process focuses on mastering self-awareness. Through trance-like analysis, hypnosis decreases blood pressure and heart rate, putting one's physical body at ease. Working with memories, hypnotherapy helps a person to reframe, relax, absorb, dissociate, respond, and reflect. The process reconstructs healthier associations with a person's past events. Dealing with a wide range of conditions, such as anxiety and depression, people become responsive to new solutions that can lead to personal development through hypnotherapy.

  • Unlike traditional psychology that focuses more on the causes and symptoms of mental illnesses and emotional disturbances, positive psychology emphasizes traits, thinking patterns, behaviors, and experiences that are forward-thinking and can help improve the quality of a person's day-to-day life. These may include optimism, spirituality, hopefulness, happiness, creativity, perseverance, justice, and the practice of free will. It is an exploration of one's strengths, rather than one's weaknesses. The goal of positive psychology is not to replace those traditional forms of therapy that center on negative experiences, but instead to expand and give more balance to the therapeutic process.

  • Mindfulness therapy is a type of psychotherapy that uses mindfulness practices, like meditation and breathing exercises, to help individuals become more aware of their thoughts, feelings, and sensations in the present moment. It aims to cultivate a non-judgmental, accepting attitude towards these experiences, which can help reduce automatic negative responses and promote emotional regulation

  • Strength-based therapy is a type of positive psychotherapy and counseling that focuses on your internal strengths and resourcefulness, rather than on your weaknesses, failures, and shortcomings. The tenet is that this focus sets up a positive mindset that helps you build on your best qualities, find your strengths, improve resilience, and change your worldview to one that is more positive. Practitioners believe the main reason to discuss a patient’s problems is to discover the inner strengths clients can tap into in order to build solutions.

  • Dialectical behavior therapy (DBT) is a structured program of psychotherapy with a strong educational component designed to provide skills for managing intense emotions and negotiating social relationships. Originally developed to curb the self-destructive impulses of chronic suicidal patients, it is also the treatment of choice for borderline personality disorder, emotion dysregulation, and a growing array of psychiatric conditions. Though usually practiced in group settings, DBT research has developed several emotional regulation techniques used in individual therapy.

  • Somatic therapy is a form of body-centered therapy that looks at the connection of mind and body and uses both psychotherapy and physical therapies for holistic healing. In addition to talk therapy, somatic therapy practitioners use mind-body exercises and other physical techniques to help release the pent-up tension that negatively affects a patient’s physical and emotional wellbeing. Thought, emotions, and sensations are all believed to be interconnected and influence one another. If talk therapy has reached its limits for a patient, somatic therapy holds that the body is a largely untapped resource for psychotherapy.